My Brothers, My Business Partners… and My Opponent?

When Family and Business Collide – bloodlines or bottom-lines?

Have you ever sat down, kopi in hand, and thought, “Wah, family sure got drama—but at least business is different” 

Yeah… About that.. hold on to your seat, although this story is not as widely spread like the recent CDL saga, but there are plenty of learning from this drama. 

I had coffee recently with a friend—let’s call him Gerald—who’s a lawyer and he shared with me a legal tangle that sounds like an episode of “Succession,” except it’s set in MacPherson, not Manhattan. (You can google the case most probably you will find it)

His story isn’t rare. In fact, it echoes a real case I came across not long ago. And it’s one of those stories that makes you pause and think: “Can blood and business really mix?

Business is thicker than blood?

Yea.. of course it is an ai generated picture – can’t find the heart to use any other family’s picture for this article.

Let me tell you about the Tan brothers (Not their real name, of course).

You know the type.. Five brothers, grew up working shoulder to shoulder in their dad’s construction business. From the dusty sites of Toa Payoh to the steel frames of Upper Thomson, they were inseparable. They hustled, saved, and eventually pooled resources to buy over a property company—let’s call it Holdings One Pte Ltd (again, not the real name).

Now, here’s where the plot thickens.

Initially, only the two eldest – Ah Fong (Brother 1) and Ah Kheng (Brother 2) – were listed as shareholders. “For simplicity,” they said. “We’re all in this together,” they promised. And everyone nodded because, well, they’re family. Trust is like pandan waffles – best enjoyed warm, with no surprises.

Fast forward 20 years. Properties bought, redeveloped, sold. Money flowed in. Some was reinvested, some (allegedly) loaned in, and some mortgaged. But when the younger brothers Ah Tong (Brother 3), Ah Kang (Brother 4), and Ah Pang (Brother 5) – decided to check the company’s registrar one day in 2019 (imagine that feeling, like finding out your Kaya Toast have no Kaya), they saw their names… and they weren’t there!

Instead, shares they thought were theirs had been transferred back to Ah Fong. Quietly. Without a whisper.

“Maybe it’s a mistake?” one of them said.

It wasn’t.

What followed was a family implosion. Courtrooms instead of CNY reunions. Lawyers instead of love. Claims of trust arrangements from the 90s, a “Company Resolution” they all signed in 2012, and share transfers that apparently came with no payments. 

The older brothers said it was a sale. The younger ones said it was a gift based on long-standing trust and shared effort.

Who’s right?

The High Court eventually ruled in favor of the younger brothers. Turns out, those family agreements—though informal, even a little messy—can still hold water when backed by years of consistent behavior, financial contribution, and a bit of documentation. But by then, the damage was done.

No more family dinners. No more “I got your back.” Just silence. The kind that echoes even louder in a small island like ours.

So what do we take away from this?

Look, I’ve been in corporate finance for over 15 years. I’ve helped founders exit for millions and guided families navigating sticky shareholder exits. But nothing—and I mean nothing—is more volatile than a business built on assumed trust with zero structure.

Because here’s the hard truth: feelings fade. Memories get fuzzy. But paper—paper doesn’t forget (plus now digitally it is uploaded and saved somewhere).

If you’re building a business with family, here are three lessons that you must not forget:

  1. Put it in writing. Trust is great. But contracts preserve trust. Don’t rely on verbal agreements from the ’90s when today’s assets are worth millions.
  2. Separate roles from relationships. Your eldest brother may have raised you, but that doesn’t make him your CFO if he is not financially trained. Know and define who’s wearing what hat—and the responsibilities and accountabilities that come with it.
  3. Review and refresh. Businesses evolve. So should your agreements. What made sense in 2012 may not work in 2025. Update your shareholder structure, especially when new projects or people come in.

Today, there’s a growing trend of family offices and succession planning in Singapore – especially with so many SMEs hitting the second or third generation. That’s a good thing. But plans only work when they’re followed.

There is a chinese saying “富不过三代” (fù bù guò sān dài), meaning “wealth doesn’t last three generations”, but with proper legacy and wealth planning, it could last more than three generations and the legacy last for the many generations to come.

So next time when you are hanging out with your family-business-partner, ask: “Eh, bro… we really clear on this or not? Let’s get the paper work done and sign it.”

Because if not, you might find your next family meeting happening… in court.


What do you think? Have you had to navigate business with your family before? Share your experience—anonymously or not— by dropping me an email (TalkTo@unclehuat.com). Let’s start the conversation.

The Hardest Part of Every M&A Deal

Post-Merger Integration: The Real Battle Begins

You ever watch a wedding where the couple spends months planning the big day, but nobody talks about what happens after the honeymoon? That’s what M&A feels like. Everyone’s obsessed with the deal—negotiations, valuations, legal wrangling—but once the ink dries, the real work begins: Post-Merger Integration (PMI).

And let me tell you, this is where deals either create massive value or completely unravel. If you’ve ever been through an integration, you know it’s messy. If you haven’t—buckle up.

Also, let’s be real—this isn’t about fancy software or some overpriced tool that promises to ‘streamline integration.’ It’s about people and process. Get that right, and even a simple spreadsheet will do the job just fine.

The Hardest Part of Every M&A Deal

I’ll never forget my first major post-merger integration. We were the scrappy, fast-growing underdog, acquiring a company that was bigger, more ‘sophisticated,’ and let’s be honest—a little full of itself. They had processes, bureaucracy, and layers of decision-making that made the Titanic look nimble. We wanted to cut through the corporate nonsense and turn this oil tanker into a speedboat.

Easy, right?

Not exactly.

Here’s the cold, hard truth: If you don’t take control fast, you get swallowed. I’ve seen buyers lose control of their own acquisitions, becoming the junior partner in what was supposed to be their deal. It’s like a lion trying to take down an elephant—if you hesitate, you get trampled.

The Moment I Realized Culture Trumps Everything

Day One, we walk into their sleek HQ. Our CEO, our Chief People Officer, a couple of HR execs, and me—an odd mix for an integration meeting, I thought. Then it happened.

After a brief meeting with their top execs, our CEO drops the bomb: all of them are out. Fired. By the end of the first day, most had signed their severance agreements.

Now, I won’t lie. Some of these people were the best operators in the industry. I was excited to work with them. Surely, they were part of what we paid for?

So, after a few weeks, I mustered the courage to ask our CEO why he nuked the entire leadership team before we even had a chance to understand the business.

His answer?

“We need to change the culture, and I need the thousands of employees to get on board. Every single one of them worked for those ten execs. If the top team doesn’t fully buy in, nothing will change. Or… I could just remove them.”

Brutal? Yes. Effective? Absolutely.

That one move forced the entire organization to shift. Instead of waiting to see how things would shake out, the next layer of leadership stepped up. It created a burning platform for change, accelerating integration, breaking down resistance, and ultimately unlocking hundreds of millions in synergies.

The Five Stages of Post-Merger Integration

Most M&A deals fail not because they were bad deals, but because integration was botched. So how do you avoid turning your acquisition into a slow-motion disaster? You move fast, and you move smart.

Here’s how:

1. Day 1 Planning (Pre-Closing)

A lot of people think you need a fully baked integration plan before closing. That’s nonsense. You can’t plan everything before you set foot inside the business. But you do need:

  • A clear vision of what the combined company should look like
  • A safe passage checklist to ensure a smooth legal and operational transition
  • A synergy roadmap—because at some point, you’ll have to prove this deal was worth it
  • An Integration Management Office (IMO) to keep everything from descending into chaos

Your ‘Day 1’ isn’t just about ownership transfer. It’s about setting the tone and making sure you don’t spend the next six months playing defense.

2. Safe Passage (Months 0-1)

Congratulations, you bought a company. Now, do you actually control it?

Day 1 is a minefield. Employees are nervous, customers are watching, and competitors are hoping you screw up. Get communication wrong on this day, and you’ll spend months cleaning up the mess.

You also need to lock down operational control—bank mandates, IT systems, payroll. I’ve seen cases where a seller drained the bank account after closing. Don’t let that be your horror story.

3. Fast Synergies (Months 0-3)

This is where you get your money back.

The fastest wins usually come from:

  • Procurement—Leveraging scale to cut supplier costs
  • Overlapping roles—Yes, that means headcount reductions, and no, it’s not fun
  • Pricing alignment—Are customers paying different prices for the same product? Fix that
  • Working capital improvements—Aligning payment terms can free up huge amounts of cash

These early wins give you the oxygen to push through the tougher integration work ahead.

4. Integration (Months 3-18)

By now, you’ve got control and banked some quick wins. But the real work starts here—systems, processes, and culture. If you don’t get this right, you’ll still have two separate companies operating under one roof years later.

ERP systems, reporting structures, product lines—this is where complexity skyrockets. And honestly, it’s where a lot of leadership teams lose steam. But if you don’t push through, you’ll never see the full value of the deal.

5. Long-Term Synergies (Months 12+)

This is where the big wins happen—new products, geographic expansion, full operational efficiencies. The problem? Most companies never get here. They get stuck in never-ending integration chaos and lose momentum.

A great example? When Facebook bought Instagram for $1 billion, people thought Zuck was crazy. Instagram had zero revenue at the time. But after 18 months of integration and ad-network expansion, it became one of the best M&A deals ever.

The Reality of Post-Merger Integration

If M&A deals are like weddings, PMI is the marriage. And just like a marriage, you’ve got to communicate, make tough decisions, and stay committed when things get messy.

So, have you lived through a post-merger integration nightmare? Or maybe a success story? Drop uncle an email please (TalkTo@unclehuat.com) —I’d love to hear about your battle scars and lessons learned.

Net Working Capital After M&A: The Make-or-Break Factor Nobody Talks About

Picture this: you bought a house and then realised you didn’t budget for the movers, the new locks, the lawyer fee, the renovation, the furniture? That’s what happens in M&A when companies overlook net working capital (NWC). It’s like buying the house and forgetting that you actually need cash flow to keep the lights on.

Now, if you’ve ever been involved in a deal—whether as a CFO, a founder, or just the poor soul stuck in due diligence—you know how much effort goes into closing. 

Valuations, synergies, legal battles… it’s a ring of tactical warfare and once the confetti settles, the real game begins: keeping the business running smoothly. And that’s where NWC can sneak up and kick you in the balls (from my pov, cos uncle is a male).

What’s the Big Deal with Net Working Capital (“NWC”)?

NWC is essentially the cash cushion that keeps the business afloat day-to-day. It’s the difference between current assets (stuff like accounts receivable and inventory) and current liabilities (bills, salaries, supplier payments—aka the stuff you owe). Get this wrong post-acquisition, and you’ll quickly find yourself in a cash crunch.

Here’s a classic scenario: A buyer acquires a company based on historical NWC, but right after the deal closes, they realize that the seller has aggressively collected receivables and slowed down payables to make the balance sheet look good. 

What does that mean? The buyer now has to pump in extra cash just to keep the business running. Fun times.

The Great Negotiation Dance

In most deals, buyers and sellers negotiate a target NWC. This target is typically an average of the company’s working capital over the past 12 months. But here’s the kicker—seasonality, business cycles, and one-off events can mess with these numbers. If you’re not careful, you might inherit a business that looked healthy on paper but is actually gasping for air.

Take retail, for example. If you buy a company right after the holiday season, the working capital might be artificially high because of all the cash from Christmas sales. But come March, when sales dip and inventory is bloated, you’re in for a surprise. That’s why timing and deep diligence matter.

Imagine buying Manchester United Football Club (one of the most valuable club in the world) but now you have to spend 10% of your purchase value to fix the old stadium – one of your main revenue generator (yeah.. I’m not a fan).

Recent Trends: Why NWC is Even Trickier in 2025

With supply chain disruptions still lingering and inflation throwing cost structures out of whack, NWC has become a minefield. Companies are holding more inventory to hedge against delays, and payment terms are getting stretched on both sides. Just last quarter, a buddy of mine was advising on a mid-market deal where the buyer underestimated post-close cash needs by 40%—all because supplier lead times had doubled.

Another trend? Private equity (PE) firms are getting savvier. They’re baking in tighter NWC adjustments to avoid surprises. But some strategic buyers? Still getting burned. They focus on EBITDA (earnings before interest, taxes, blah blah blah) and forget that positive EBITDA doesn’t mean cash magically appears in the bank.

So, How Do You Avoid an NWC Disaster?

  1. Scrub the Numbers Harder Than Ever – Look beyond averages. Analyze trends, seasonality, and outliers. If there was a sudden dip or spike in working capital, ask why.
  2. Understand the Seller’s Game – Is the seller playing with receivables and payables? Are they delaying payments to suppliers to pump up cash flow? You gotta know.
  3. Model Post-Close Scenarios – Assume things will go sideways. What happens if collection cycles slow down? If customers take longer to pay? Build these into your forecasts.
  4. Negotiate a Fair NWC Target – Don’t just accept a rolling average. Push for a structure that reflects business realities post-close.
  5. Have a Cash Buffer – Always, always assume you’ll need more cash post-close than you think. Because you probably will.

Let’s Talk

Ever seen an NWC nightmare firsthand? Or maybe you’ve got a war story about a deal that almost went sideways? Let uncle know, I’d love to hear how you navigated the chaos. And if you’re in the middle of a deal right now, well… may your cash flows be ever in your favor, “may the cash.. flows be with you” 

When Theory Meets Reality – 2/2

What the Textbooks Miss in Valuation Practice (Part 2)

The DCF Trap: When Perfect Math Meets Imperfect Reality

DCF might look great in a textbook, but in real life? It can be a bit of a trap. It’s built entirely on forecasted assumptions, and you know how that goes. Especially in M&A, where the seller is probably handing you a forecast that’s, let’s say, optimistically inflated.

Take a business generating $500 in free cash flow. Using an 8% growth rate and a 10% discount rate, you get a DCF of $23,310. Change those assumptions by just 1%, and the valuation can drop by half. The model is only as good as the guesswork behind it.

Why Comparable Transactions Are the Real MVP

This is why I lean on comparable transactions. They provide a sanity check against market reality. If DCF is the theory, comparables are the antidote. They help you understand the range of multiples in similar deals and adjust for qualitative factors like market potential and risk.

But here’s the rub: In high capex industries, EBITDA multiples can be misleading. Two businesses with the same EBITDA might have very different capital needs. The solution? Use EBITDA less recurring capex as your metric. It’s a closer proxy to real cash flow and a much better basis for valuation.

Synergies: The Good, The Bad, and The Ugly

When it comes to synergies—the supposed magic that creates deal value—always separate the hard synergies (quantifiable and reliable) from the soft ones (more like wishful thinking). You might share some hard synergies with the seller in a competitive bid, but never, ever bake soft synergies into your valuation offer. That’s a recipe for disaster.

The Reverse DCF: A Real-World Application

While I’m not a huge fan of DCF in traditional scenarios, I do like using a reverse DCF to validate valuations. You start with a market-based valuation, then work backward to see what growth and discount rate assumptions it implies. It’s a great way to test whether your assumptions are grounded in reality.

Practical Steps for Valuing a Business

Alright, let’s wrap this up with a practical framework I use:

  1. Understand the acquisition perimeter – What exactly are you buying?
  2. Break down the business into cash-generating units – Separate profit-makers from loss-makers.
  3. Choose your valuation method – Earnings-based or asset-based.
  4. Apply the right multiples – Use comparables, adjust for capex needs, and ensure your assumptions make sense.
  5. Backtest with a reverse DCF – This is your reality check.
  6. Include hard synergies only – And decide how much of that value to include in your offer.

So, What’s the Bottom Line?

Valuation is messy. It’s part art, part science, and part gut feeling. The smartest deals I’ve seen are the ones where the price is so good, the details almost don’t matter. When you buy well, you create a margin of safety that smooths over any miscalculations.

But hey, that’s just my take. What’s been your experience with valuation? Have you seen deals where the “textbook” approach fell short? come email uncle at TalkTo@UncleHuat.com

When Theory Meets Reality in M&A

What the Textbooks Miss in Valuation Practice (Part 1/2)

Have you ever sat down with someone who built a billion-dollar empire from scratch and realised they couldn’t name a single valuation method? I did. It was a family business—no fancy tech, no groundbreaking innovation—just savvy operators in a tough industry who built massive moats using mergers and acquisitions (M&A).

And here’s the kicker: Not one of them had a college degree. Forget MBAs—they probably thought “DCF” stood for “Don’t Care, Friend.” Yet, they managed to achieve something most of the smartest folks from top business schools only dream of—adding a third comma to their bank accounts.

I’ve worked with incredibly sharp minds, dissecting valuation methodologies with managing directors from every big investment bank you could name. They had successful careers, no doubt. But billionaires? Not quite.

The magic formula these self-made billionaires used wasn’t some complex valuation model. They didn’t calculate terminal growth rates or lose sleep over internal rates of return (IRR). Instead, they had an uncanny ability to buy assets and businesses at prices so low, they simply couldn’t lose.

The Art of Patience and Simplicity

Their strategy was beautifully straightforward: find good assets being run poorly, and wait. Sometimes for years, even decades. When the time was right, they’d swoop in, buying at or near book value. They’d improve profitability, integrate the asset into their core operation, and voilà—instant value creation. They bought at book values and held or sold at an earnings multiple.

They understood that valuation isn’t a precise science. It’s more like art. You can analyze all you want, but at the end of the day, if you try hard enough, you can justify any price within a range. It’s a minefield of cognitive biases and conflicts of interest—something I’m sure you’ve seen before.

Enterprise Value vs. Equity Value: Let’s Break It Down

Before we dive into methodologies, let’s clear up two critical terms: Enterprise Value and Equity Value.

  • Enterprise Value is the total value of a company’s assets, excluding its debt and cash. It’s like looking at a car’s price without considering how much gas is in the tank or if it has a loan on it.
  • Equity Value is what you’d actually pay to buy the business. You start with the enterprise value, add cash, subtract debt, and adjust for working capital.

Why does this matter? Because acquisition offers are typically made on an enterprise value basis. The tricky part is bridging enterprise value to equity value, which is why valuation conversations often start with enterprise value—it keeps things clean and comparable.

Valuation: The “Science” That Often Misses the Art

Ever heard the saying, “A business is worth whatever someone is willing to pay for it”? Yeah, I hate that cliché. It’s not just unhelpful; it’s misleading. It ignores the massive information gap between buyers and sellers. It’s like saying, “A house is worth whatever the highest bidder offers,” without mentioning if the roof leaks or if it’s haunted.

For us finance nerds, there are three main schools of valuation theory:

  1. Discounted Cash Flow (DCF) – The purist’s method. It calculates the present value of future cash flows. It’s technically perfect but relies on forecasts, which are, let’s face it, often just educated guesses.
  2. Multiples of a Metric – The practical approach. You apply a multiple (derived from similar deals) to a business metric, usually EBITDA (Earnings Before Interest, Taxes, Depreciation, and Amortization). It’s less precise but more real-world.
  3. Asset-Based Valuation – Common in distressed sales, this method values each asset separately. It’s like selling a car for its parts instead of as a whole.

In part 2, I will share my experience on a textbook method that seems to fall short.